This was a most desperate place to live in Italy and at the turn of the 20th century, which compelled both sides of my impoverished grandparents to search for a better life in America around 1910. My ancestors lived on 'cucina povera' (food of the poor) out of necessity and not because of its trendiness today. My grandfather hated chestnuts because that's about the most that they had to make flour with and other recipes. Pasta and rice were staples with a bit of little meat. Chicken and rabbit were common, but never, EVER did they eat fish because of the distance from the sea. That explains why my family has never celebrated the traditional Italian Christmas Eve dinner known as the "Feast of the Seven Fishes". They could not get to the fish, nor afford it if it were in front of them, nor was fish brought up into the mountains. As a result they had never heard of the feast. My family also never could afford any of the rich desserts such as cannoli or ricotta cakes, but they did bake biscotti, which we have always called 'contucci' that they dipped in wine after dinner.
Similar to thousands of Italian immigrants at that time, my grandparents' families were dirt poor, period! And they certainly did not travel to 'America' on the ocean ships in first class . . . I imagine they were in the bottom level of those ships with just one trunk with all of their belongings in two (of which I am the only fortunate grandchild to have one trunk from both sides of my grandparents, each over 100 years old, to cherish and pass down to my children).
But only two people people from each side (maternal and paternal) of the family moved to America. Their sisters and brothers stayed behind on the mountain and never left Italy. Eventually they moved to where they live today in the nearby bustling city of Modena, home of Luciano Pavoratti, both the Ferarri and Maserati sports cars, and balsamico vinegar. Today my relatives' quality of life is such that my aunts, uncles and cousins have absolutely no desire to ever leave Italy. It just couldn't be any better today!
A part of me wishes that my grandparents had never left Italy and that I would have had the opportunity to grow up in this beautiful country. But that was obviously not part of the bigger picture/plan and so here I am, a fortunate U.S. citizen visiting the land of my heritage with my parents (ages 85 and 92 years young). My mother and father have returned to Montecreto and Modena about six times, so they know their way around and are quite fluent in Italian. At one time I was fluent in the language, but you know what they say, "Use it or lose it" and I had no one to speak Italian to once I left home after college.
Today the only things that I can say in Italian are pretty censored, sex-related comments! My Scottish/German husband knows exactly what I'm saying though and it always brings a big smile on his face! :-D
While here we will not only visit my family, but also go to the local Catholic church to look through Baptismal records so that my mother can do some family genealogy work.
After I return to the States, I'll share more photos. For now, I'm off exploring this little mountain town, visiting family, talking, eating delicious home-made Italian food, drinking some vino, looking through dust-covered, aged record books in a church basement, and thanking God that I've got this moment in time to be in this lovely little spot on earth.
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Enjoy, enjoy, enjoy!!!!
ReplyDeleteThis was the best part of my trip!
DeleteOh my gosh! So gorgeous. Hope you're having a great time!
ReplyDeleteIt was an amazing trip ,Joanne!
DeleteLovely! Wishing you safe travel and a wonderful visit.
ReplyDeleteBest,
Bonnie
Thanks so much Bonnie!
DeleteRoz, Your stories of your grandparents pull on my heart...Can't help but marvel at the Grace which takes individuals and families around those twisty roads that lead to more bountiful destinations.
ReplyDeleteHi Ninja, It was Grace that helped me indeed drive in Italy!
DeleteWhat a beautiful place! The 2nd photo looks gorgeous.
ReplyDeleteIt truly is a beautiful place, Angie!
DeleteFAbulous photos jealous, jealous jealous ENJOY! Keep them coming!
ReplyDeleteI need to go back as soon as possible Claudia!
DeleteWhat a treat to visit your ancestral home and visit with relatives. I immediately went to Google Earth to have a look at Montecreto and the surrounding area.
ReplyDeleteIt's pretty small, Larry! But you'll find it on the map! This really was a treat to visit!
DeleteIt's all so amazing, isn't it? The seeking of a better life - that really took guts - to move away and start again. It's a place of beauty (all of Italy is). I hope you have better luck looking up baptismal records than my parents did. (Churches were burned during the 2 world wars). But however the outcome, you're just soaking it all in, aren't you. Enjoy!
ReplyDeleteWe were able to find some family records Claudia, but like you said, not all of them are around anymore! It was a great trip though!
DeleteSo happy for you, Roz. Love these updates and seeing what you are up to while you are there. Thanks for sharing this trip with us all, I look forward to seeing the new messages in my inbox with you so many miles away.
ReplyDeleteThanks Crystal, I'm glad that I was able to find your new blog address to continue to follow you too! Happy Holidays!
DeleteYou are living my dream right now... To travel with your parents in a place of your heritage... I am so happy for you! I am desperate to return to Germany but I only want to do it with my parents along. We left Germany when I was nearly 14 years old and although I have MANY fond memories and I remember a lot about everything, I wouldn't even know where to begin to go see the many places that make up all those wonderful memories. However, my parents... They know Germany and all the places I wish to see again like the backs of their hands. So going with them is a must. They are now 70 and 71 years old and beginning to say that they are too old to make the trip at all. I plan to share your post with them and say, SEE?! You can do it!
ReplyDeleteSending you always my best with thanks for your beautiful blog!
Janet
Janet, I read your comment to my mother and we both agree completely with you! Go and visit Germany and if possible, with your parents. You will cherish it forever!
DeleteWhat a beautiful place to call home Roz. And how wonderful that you and your parents are sharing the experience. My mom was from Emilia Romagna, but I never heard of Montecreto. I'm off to look it up on a map. Have a wonderful time.
ReplyDeleteLinda, where in E-R is your mother from? How interesting to know that we've got similar Italian roots!!!!
DeleteDear Roz, your posts bring me to tears. My family is originally from Italy and one day I would love to go back there...I have never been to Italy, but it is my destination.
ReplyDeleteIt's beautiful that you still have family over there to visit. I wish you and your mom the best of luck with your search through the records.
I look forward to more posts. Blessings my dear, your friend, Catherine xo
I hope that your dream comes true, Catherine!
DeleteWhat a wonderful story, you are so fortunate to spend this time with your parents! enjoy!! anne
ReplyDeleteThanks Anne, I truly am counting my blessings!
DeleteWhat an incredibly interesting post. Enjoyed it! :)
ReplyDeleteI am so pleased that you enjoyed, Jennifer! I'm off to visit your blog now!
Deleteso nice to hear so many of the familiar food words on your site that we speak of in my home! looking forward to your photos and more posts on your amazing trip! so jealous!
ReplyDeleteHi Rosemary, Thanks for your kind words in your comment! I look forward to all of your great posts on your blog too!
DeleteWhat an absolutely breathtaking place! How wonderful to have come from such a place and be able to return to see it still there! A lot of these quaint, beautiful places in the states are disappearing.
ReplyDeleteI couldn't agree more! It was so pretty!
DeleteI truly enjoyed reading your post this morning. Ten years ago I made the trip to the ancestral homes of my maternal and paternal grandparents...one in Le Marche (Orciano di Pesaro) and the other in Sicily (Ferla). As I stood in one location looking out at vistas such as you show in your post, there was a village standing next to me. He spoke halting English and I spoke halting Italian. I said "How could my grandfather leave such beauty?" He responded..."You are looking at it with a full stomach!"
ReplyDeleteI read your post to my mother, because that was the same reason why our relatives left Italy. She totally agreed with what this man said to you! Thanks for your interesting comment, Patricia!
DeleteNice Roz, I spotted this post a few days ago, but i did not have time to read it. It's so nice that you share this special trip with us.
ReplyDeleteThanks Rita, it was such a joy to visit Italy! So beautiful!
DeleteI loved learning about your family's history! What a picturesque town...and how blessed you are to visit with your parents!
ReplyDeleteYes, it was very special indeed Liz! I feel very blessed!
DeleteRoz, To experience this with your parents is priceless! Enjoy every second. Wonderful memories for a lifetime!
ReplyDeleteYou said it perfectly Marie! I'm ready to go back again!
DeleteCongratulations on making it back to Montecreto. My family is also from Montecreto and as a 2nd generation Italian-American, I look forward to returning home. I am eager to hear about your experience when you are finished.
ReplyDeleteWow that is SO COOL! When will you be visiting Montecreto?
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